Hi!
The self help industry is booming and has been useful in so many ways AND at the same time, it has also created a society where people believe they have to do everything themselves, by themselves. It has created the idea that you shouldn’t have to ask for help.  That notion seems pretty limiting to me.  What’s the purpose of creating a supportive relationship environment if you shouldn’t have to ask for help and support? 

I was just a meeting of coaches recently and even one of the coaches said, “I should know how to do this, I should be able to do this on my own.”  Yep, even those of us who are trained to help others have the idea imbedded in our psyche that we don’t need to ask for help or support.   

Well, guess what?  Asking for help is what makes life more joyful for you and for others!  Asking makes life easier and easier is okay – you are allowed to have help and ease and joy in your life.  Create your amazing relationship environment and let go of the idea that you should do everything yourself! 

Joyfully,

Deb